We at Cupid’s Coach are committed to the development of a community which fosters positive, enriching dating experiences, which enables relationships to spark and thrive, and which promotes self-discovery, learning, growth, and FUN all along the way.
There is no shortage of high quality, relationship oriented single people out there in the world. Our aim is to gather love-seeking people together and to give you each a dignified, simple, and effective way to find each other, to study each other carefully and in detail, and to make the right choices for the right reasons. Our mission is to enable you to navigate the ‘romantic marketplace’ with greater ease, more enjoyment, and success, allowing you to achieve your relationship goals.
We think of ourselves not so much as matchmakers, but as “possibilities brokers”. We feel that you are fully capable of making wise and appropriate choices as to whom to select, and for that reason, rather than sending you on blind dates, – we prefer to present you with possible Candidates, and it’s up to each of you to select each other, to contact each other, and to engage in relationship (…or not).
We want each of you to study yourself and each other carefully, always keeping in mind your Critical Criteria, and to make your choices accordingly. It is our hope, our expectation, and our request that you treat each other with kindness and respect, and that you communicate openly and honestly with each other and with us, your matchmakers.
Our dating culture is complex. Romantic interest and attraction are two-way processes. We encourage you, our Clients and Members, to be open-minded and to strive to broaden your interpretation of physical beauty, and for you to isolate for yourself your THREE most important Critical Criteria. It's fine to have a wish list of 10 qualities or attributes that would be nice, but see if you can pick your Top Three, and communicate them to us and to each other through your Personal Resume.
When in doubt as to whether you're attracted, if the person seems to be your 'type' or not, if the Candidate meets your Top Three Critical Criteria, then we suggest that you stretch and say yes. Some of our most successful matches have been surprises to one or the other, and often to us too!
This process is meant to be one of learning, personal growth, and expansion. You'll learn about yourself and about others too. Some lessons are easier than others. To survive and thrive through the process takes patience, persistence, and...a sense of humor! We all need plenty of each.
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